This is my very first time featuring someone else on my blog and I am so excited writing it! Meet one of my best friend YOANA and her couple, ANDRY. They just celebrated their first year anniversary together and would like to share to us all about their relationship, including their funny stories and tips on how to keeping up the good relationship. Let's catch up something with this happy couple!
HOW DID THEY MEET
TINDER! lol. A friend of Yoan (and mine too), Syandi who got a chance to met her soulmate from Tinder, so she told Yoan to try using Tinder as well. At the first time Yoan wasn't really interested in, she downloaded at the first time and deleted it after because she thought that it's useless. Until the second time she tried and in less than a week she matched with Andry.
Apparently they both had quite the same circle of friends so it's easy for them to get connected to each other. But many times Yoan rejected Andry's invitation to meet him up, until when she got sick Andry drove himself to have meal in a restaurant not really far from Yoan's home. She couldn't rejected the question anymore, then they finally met!
HARD TIMES IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP
They're almost separated once because of mindset differences. It's hard for them at the first time to unite their point of view together moreover when they decided to prepare their marriage life in the future. Somehow Yoan tried to ensure Andry about her condition and business that her working on yet Andry didn't feel matter about it but Yoan's insecurity about her own sometimes could create a fight. It happens almost all the time.
HOW THEY OVERCOME THE PROBLEM & WHO MOST OFTEN SAY SORRY FIRST
Andry most of the time! haha. Since they committed at the beginning of their relationship that anytime they have problem it has to be resolved directly and they are not allowed to debate about it again. There's no need to keep problem dragged on cause it can lead to another bigger problem.
Another way to overcome their problem is to have quality time together....with food hahaha. Cause they are a food hunter so most of their quality time spent eating good food and it can create a better mood for them to solve the problem.
THEIR UNFORGETTABLY FUNNY STORY
They had a lot! But two moments that they couldn't stop laughing about is when the first time Andry tried to kiss Yoan. Right when the exact momentum Andry wanted to kiss her, she told him that her mom was approaching, suddenly Andry started to panic and felt awkward.
Another story is when Andry was quietly playing with Nathan (Yoan's beloved teddy). He played and cuddled Nathan alone at her room. Yoan quietly entered the room and softly giggled looking at Andry until he turned around and shocked, he straightly thrown away Nathan from his arms LOL.
THEY EVEN HAD HORROR STORY
FYI, we can say that somehow Yoan is able to feel the presence of ghost and probably it's hard for Andry cause he's scared of ghost. It happened at Taman Anggrek Mall when Andry picked Yoan up after work. While they both were walking on the parking area, she saw something really scary across them and shockingly Andry saw it too. They both surprised and wondered how come Andry saw that terrifying view as well.
TIPS TO KEEP THEIR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
1. Set the rule of game at the beginning of your relationship cause it prevents uncontrolled quarrel
2. Before you start everything we have to accept her/his flaws
3. Somehow period of time in knowing someone is not a guarantee on how relationship makes it or not. We need to know ourself first before we start to care about other people, by then even when we're together with the person we just knew, it doesn't matter at all.
4. Don't listen to people's judgement about who you both are
5. It's good to communicate clearly about each other's financial condition especially if she/he is the person you're about to marry and grow old with
6. Keep up the good communication in everything
7. When it comes to the big family, make sure you both are strong and patient enough to face any opinion differences
I'm glad they found each other because I know Yoan's story in finding love for almost eight years and Andry needed to be alone for ten years for finally got Yoan!
Happy anniversary Andry & Yoana, this is my present for you and I hope you like it. Good luck on your wedding preparation!
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